The RESET CUCA

    • When did I first start feeling like I’m not enough? Can I pinpoint any specific events or experiences?

    • What specific areas of my life do I feel most inadequate in (e.g., work, relationships, personal achievements)?

    • Are there any recurring thoughts or phrases I tell myself when I feel this way? What are they?

    • How do these feelings affect my day-to-day life and interactions with others?

    • What standards or comparisons am I using to measure my worth? Are they realistic or fair?

    • How do I think my life would change if I felt I was enough? What would be different?

    • What strengths and positive qualities do I possess that I might be overlooking?

    • How do I typically respond to praise or positive feedback? Do I believe it or dismiss it? Why?

    • What are some accomplishments or moments I am proud of? How do they make me feel?

    • Are there any people in my life who contribute to these feelings of inadequacy? How do they do so?

    • What self-care practices can I implement to nurture a sense of self-worth?

    • How do I handle failure or setbacks? What self-talk occurs during these times?

    • If I were to write a letter to my past self, what words of encouragement or advice would I give?

    • What external factors (social media, societal expectations, etc.) might be influencing my feelings of not being enough?

    • Who are the people in my life who support and uplift me? How can I spend more time with them?

    • What does my inner critic sound like? Can I name it and challenge its voice?

    • What would it look like to practice self-compassion when I feel I’m not enough?

    • What activities or hobbies make me feel fulfilled and confident? How can I incorporate them more into my life?

    • How do I define success for myself? Is this definition aligned with my true values and desires?

    • What steps can I take to reframe my thinking from “not enough” to “good enough” or “worthy”?

HEALTHY BACK RESET (16MIN)