The RESET STEF

    • What role(s) do you think you play in your family (e.g., hero, martyr, scapegoat, peacemaker)? How has this shaped your identity?

    • Describe a time when you felt particularly responsible for your family’s happiness or success. How did that make you feel?

    • Reflect on the expectations placed on you by your family. Are they aligned with your personal values and goals?

    • Which family member do you feel most connected to, and why? How has this relationship influenced you?

    • Do you see yourself in conflict with any family member’s role? What emotions come up when you think about this?

    • How does your family typically communicate about emotions or conflicts? Is this effective or challenging for you?

    • Describe a situation where you felt unheard or misunderstood by your family. What would you have needed in that moment?

    • What boundaries, if any, do you feel are missing in your family relationships? How might you begin to establish them?

    • Are there topics that feel “off-limits” in your family? How does this impact your ability to express yourself fully?

    • Reflect on a time you stood up for yourself within your family. What was the outcome, and how did it affect you?

HIP & SHOULDER RESET (20MIN)